Party Anyone?

The following is an excerpt from a teaching by Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo called “Take Control of Your Life”

First there’s contemplation.  We should think like this.  All sentient beings are suffering, yet they are all Buddha.  How is it that the Buddha was different, that he was not suffering?  The Buddha said the difference is, “I am awake.”  Therefore, I will practice in such a way as to become awake like the Buddha.  Or we can also look at the suffering of sentient beings and we realize that every one of them wishes to be happy exactly like us. We’re so similar; we have different cultures and different colored skin, but we are so similar in that we all wish to be happy.  And so the Buddha teaches us that in order to have happiness, we should cultivate a pure and virtuous mind with pure and virtuous deeds.

Now as a young person in a materialistic culture where’s there’s lots of Pepsi Cola and dancing and beautiful people and spring break from college happens on the beach in a bikini and you know, the hallmarks of our civilization, we look at that and we think, ”Pure conduct? Virtuous thoughts?  How’s that gonna be fun?”

Well, here’s the problem: You see those young beautiful bodies on the beach, and you think, “Ah, once I had that, was like that.” And then you see they’re all dancing and having a good time and you think, “Ah, for a party.  I haven’t had a party in such a long time.  How wonderful to be that young and beautiful and have a party.”  And then you watch them drinking and you think, “Ah, I used to drink once.  That was great!”  Because that’s what we were taught.  We were taught that we should party and be happy.  And that’s what you do with your left over money after you spend all your life making it.  These are the things that we’ve been taught.

But the Buddha says, “Well, you have that wonderful body now, but every minute it’s changing.”  And for those of us who have been there, and done that, seen that and watched it go, we look at that and we go, “It went fast.  Man, it went fast.  And you know, I put some effort into that.”  And then we think about all the drinking, and that was fun for a little while until we became alcoholics and then it wasn’t fun anymore, or until our stomachs couldn’t take it anymore and then we discovered something. We’re drinking poison!  It’s not good for us.  So our society doesn’t teach us anything.  It teaches us to bang into walls and hopefully from that we may learn something.

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Astrology for 3/19/2017

3/19/2017 Sunday by Norma

If you have been feeling mopey about something don’t worry, things are changing and life is looking happy again. A lingering ailment is healed, a secret sorrow is relinquished and you are full of zip, ready to meet the world again! Fire signs predominate, a tonic after the Piscean angst of the past month. You’ll want to run, skip, hike and sing cheerful songs as the day moves along. Nikos Kazantzakis said, “Since we cannot change reality, let us change the eyes which see reality.” The big picture is once again appealing and travel, philosophy and sports put a bounce in your step. Go somewhere, anywhere, and watch the world transform as your spirits soar.

Taking Account of Our Minds

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The following is an excerpt from a teaching by Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo called “The Habit of Bodhicitta”

We rarely empathize with the needs of others. We may become aware of them on an intellectual level. And there is a great, vast difference between that and actually empathizing with the needs and hopes and fears of others. We rarely enrich our own life experience by really merging, really blending, really empathizing with the conditions of other people’s minds. Due to our self absorption and self- cherishing, and our inability to relate to the situation of others, we find ourselves able to entertain hostility, anger, pride, selfishness, all of those things that are really detrimental to us. We are able to maintain certain habitual tendencies that we honestly cannot see about ourselves. For instance, if I were to say to you, are you basically a kind person, almost everyone in the room would say yes. We’re here, we’re being spiritual, you know, that sort of thing. But if I ask you how much time you actually spend during the course of any given day actually doing for others in a real compassionate way—keeping the bodhichitta or the compassion alive within one’s mind—how much are you actually aware of the needs and unfulfilled desires of others, we would be shocked.Really, if we actually clocked ourselves in and out of such a realization, we would be shocked at how little time we actually spend doing that. So I think it’s sometimes really helpful to make a purposeful and directed effort, such as actually clocking in when you are aware of the needs and desires of other people and when you actively participate in trying to help in some way.

The help can take different forms. Sometimes the things that people want around aren’t really good for them to have. I mean, you have a teenage son that wants nothing better than a very fast car, and you know that that’s not quite right for him. So you don’t always give a person what they want, but you can certainly empathize. You can certainly be there in a very kind and profound way as a force for connection, for communication in someone else’s life.

We actually spend very little time doing that. We spend most of our time thinking about ourselves and our own problems and our ideas. So fixated on our own ideas, so fixated on our self-cherishing. Sometimes we don’t realize that we’re almost dyslexic about kindness. Or, what is the word? Maybe we perseverate about kindness. We have this idea that we’ve already done it, you know, that it is happening, and we don’t realize that it’s not being written down at all. It’s just not going out into the world. So sometimes it really helps to journal to really see what you’ve actually done during that day to bring kindness into the world. That would be extremely useful.

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Astrology for 3/18/2017

3/18/2017 Saturday by Norma

Pleasant aspects make for a nice day, one that is free from most of the recent dust-ups of the times. Happy talk, combined with good will in communication, is a feature of the day. If you have something nice to say, a compliment to deliver, today is the day! Brisk activity is satisfying and a plan for a new beginning is in the air. Ninon de Lenclos said, “Today a new sun rises for me; everything lives, everything is animated. Everything seems to speak to me, everything invites me to cherish it.” This enjoyable day compensates for the bad dream or difficulty that occurred late last night. Hopefully you slept through it.

Astrology for 3/17/2017

3/17/2017 Friday by Norma

An ego-squash is possible today. Something that has been heading your way makes an appearance, and you must accept reality, take your medicine, and be glad it’s over. Whew! A supportive person is on your side, convinced you’re right, and ready to help in whatever is required. Happy talk and good-natured banter offer a cheerful element today, and authors and commentators have plenty to chuckle about. Phone calls, conversations and communications are light in tone and invigorating. Agnes Repplier said, “We cannot really love anyone with whom we do not laugh.” The prevailing energy turns from serious to humorous, and all you have to do is wait.

As Many Paths…

The following is an excerpt from a teaching by Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo called “Take Control of Your Life”

Society will teach you wrongly until it understands your nature.  The Buddha is the perfect teacher—the perfect one because he so thoroughly understood our nature.  It is said that when a student came to him for the first time, and said, “I would like to become Buddhist,” or “I would like to take teaching with you,” he could see in an instant all the causes and conditions that brought that student to that moment where he faced the Buddha.  He could see every cause and condition and could give each and every student the antidote necessary to provide the blessings for enlightenment.

That being the case, we can trust in the Buddha’s teaching.  He doesn’t say, “You’re a bag of chemicals.  Now you’re breathing. So good, go get a job. Make yourself happy. Have a chicken in your pot, or a pot with some chicken”.  I don’t know…” Have a drink on Friday nights.”—whatever it is that makes people happy.  He doesn’t say, “Follow in your culture.” He tears the veil apart and he says, “Based on your nature, this is what must be done.  Based on your path, this is what must be done.”  And there are as many methods in the Buddhadharma as there are sentient beings to follow them.

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Astrology for 3/16/2017

3/16/2017 Thursday by Norma

Financial matters go well and investments are highlighted today. Support comes in from multiple directions and is a direct result of the support you have given others. A behind the scenes person is on your side and this relationship stabilizes how you appear in public. Reputations are being made and damaged now and it’s quite important to choose your words carefully: a private thought could go public with embarrassing results. Sydney Biddle Barrows said, “Don’t say anything on the phone that you wouldn’t want your mother to hear at your trial.” This is a good day to behave with discretion, to engage in athletic pursuits, to contact old loves and to go shopping.

Peeling Back the Veil

The following is an excerpt from a teaching by Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo called “Take Control of Your Life”

In contemplating our lives and in proceeding mindfully, we begin to understand that the Buddha has peeled away the veil a little bit to show us that we are not only material beings affixed on the time and space grid,  that we are not these lumps that are there.  The Buddha has peeled back the veil a little bit and shown us that we are spiritual beings.  That our very appearance is the display of primordial spiritual essence and that the events and activities in our lives are merely the result of causes that we have definitely created in the past. That we are continually, by our habits and by our thinking and by our activities, by our consciousness, continually creating the causes for the future.  This is what the Buddha has taught.

Now in other religions, there are good laws, like don’t kill, don’t steal. All the religions have the same basic laws.  But in the Buddha’s path, he teaches us about cause and effect.  We are made to understand the relationship between cause and effect.  The potency implied in that is that for the first time, we are humans with tools, rather than humans with sticks and stones.  It’s as though spiritually we moved into the new age of having actual tools rather than being some sort of homo sapien who just kind of, in an animal way, deals with what life brings the best that it can.

Yes, the Buddha has given us tools.  But do we understand how to follow them?  And how to use them?  And here’s the problem.  What we don’t understand is this—and this is not necessarily the fault of each and every individual although we must take responsibility for our own habits and thoughts, it’s the only reasonable and healthy way to move forward: We are born in a culture that does not explain reality. In fact, we are born in a culture that believes in the solidity of form, believes in division and delusion and duality and doesn’t understand cause and effect relationships very much at all.  We live in a very externalized culture where yes, we understand that if you steal something, if you get caught, you’ll go to jail or get in trouble with the law.  But we also think that if you steal something and don’t get caught, that the stealing didn’t happen.  I remember thinking how many times I have met up with students that you can tell they’ve been taught that.  You’re ok as long as you don’t get caught.  Most of us learn how to manipulate our lives and manipulate our environment so that appearances meet in accord with our society.  But we have never been taught what are the real tools for happiness.  We have never been taught that. We’ve never been taught that the stealing produces future cause whether or not you get caught in this lifetime.

There are other reasons for stealing.  I personally don’t believe the fear of punishment is going to stop too many people who are hungry from stealing some food.  If you’re hungry, your mind is different.  Or for a person who is so poor that they can’t think of any other way to get by, the fear of punishment won’t stop them.  But perhaps, if they lived in a society that taught from birth the fact that if you are poor now, it’s because you have not been generous in the past. If you wish to achieve more prosperity, the best thing to do is to be of benefit to others, because stealing will only make more  impoverishment, more poverty.  We’re not taught that.  We’re only taught to look at the external.

But in a Buddhist society, we are taught that our minds are important.  We are taught that we must tame the mind.  Within the mind are the five poisons and without being tamed, they will result in unhappiness if they are left to run wild.  We have the poisons of ignorance, anger, slothfulness, desire, jealousy.  We have them all.

Ignorance in this case doesn’t mean that you didn’t go to school.  Ignorance in this case means that you have no wisdom.  It means that you do not understand the nature of reality, have not been taught the cause and effect relationships and karmic relationships that provide the future reality nor what creates your present reality.  So we are ignorant of how we are, what we are, and how we have come to be here.

So we have these five poisons and never understand that these five poisons are not our nature. They are occlusions in the diamond mind.  They are dirt on the pristine window that is consciousness.  In their pristine nature, they are the five primordial dakinis; they are the five primordial Buddhas in their nature.  They are the qualities of Buddhahood: omniscience, omnipresence, compassion—these kinds of qualities and activities.  And so as Buddhists, the veil is brought to the side so that we can look and see cause and effect and the nature of mind.

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Astrology for 3/15/2017

3/15/2017 Wednesday by Norma

If you’re hiding out from a problem, you have two more days to lie low. If you are oblivious to the problem, pay special attention to what is right beneath your nose. Henry James said, “Try to be one of the people on whom nothing is lost.” Diplomatic silence is excellent today as any words, no matter how carefully thought through, will be misconstrued and come back to haunt you. Both assertiveness and compliance are required to navigate things, and experience points you in the right direction. The tone of the day changes by afternoon and a new certainty is present. Make your move when this energy appears. This is a good day to help others, to offer the wisdom of your own experience, to contact old loves and to make investments.

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